Need Time

I thought being in relationship could change the situation, the situation when you are single into something better. Actually it's so hard to understand other people and let them be a part of your life. Especially when you took to long being single and suddenly have to be in relationship with someone.

First, you have to understand the one you choose to be in relationship with. You have to know his background, what kind of activities he likes, what kind of music he used to listen to, his style, is he fit to be your partner? but nobody is perfect. He totally has something that you don't like, so you have to whether accept for whoever he is or stop thinking that he might be the one you choose.

Second, when you already being into a relationship, it's totally a new world for you. Can you imagine you were always think about your ownself , share things with nobody, control your own activities, your phone rings only in urgent condition, but now is total reverse condition, your world seems to be upside down. 

So you will face so many problem and probably you will start to regret your decision as no longer single anymore, you used to enjoy your "me" time but now you have someone exactly next to you. 

Or maybe you expected something when you are in relationship, something you wish that could be happening in your relationship too after seeing your friend's relationship. After that you will start to disappointed with your own relationship. For example you saw your friend's boyfriend always there when she needs him or when she has a problem to solve but in your own relationship your boyfriend makes his job as a priority so he can't always be there when you need him.

So, never expected something will be better if you are in relationship. Sometimes being single is not bad at all. Being single is not because you can't find someone to be your partner but it is all about valuing your own life. 

You learn a lot from being single and you will also learn a lot of things from being in relationship. You learn to understand people, how to share things that you used to keep on yourself, learn not to let your ego comes first, learn how to give affection, learn to solve problem, learn that nothing is going to be as perfect as you think it could be, learn how to be more patience. 

You need time to learn all of that. It will not happen that fast. You and your partner have to built a good communication so you will understand each other, you will find a solution to every problem you face.

Goodluck

What is LOVE?

This is something you always want to ignore it. You called it “LOVE”.

What is the meaning of “LOVE”?

Some people said Love is beautiful

Some people said Love is a part of your heart

Some people also said Love is a piece of your life

Something i knew about LOVE is

I'm young and i don't wanna waste my time to stay with the only one guy that seems i'll love him forever.

I really want to get to know people before it's too old to be around some guys in this world.

God already provide love before we need 'em .. We just have to find them.. Time will tell.. I gotta enjoy those opportunity i had.

Well it’s lovely to have someone who want to stay with you a year or more than more as a boyfriend.

But is it necesarry? How about those beautiful things you can do without thinking about that guy who probably can hurt your feelings any second of any time?

I ever asked my friend who had been linked into this girlfriend and boyfriend relationship about 3 years or even more and they ended up with BROKE UP.

The only reason he told me was “We were too far away; I was young, naive, and full of mistakes. I think this is completely my fault to end the relationship. I kept asking myself why I should be bound to this tie, which I could never imagine where it might end up; why can't both of us enjoy our college time and making so many relationships and connections with other people surround us, to be a better person, to understand one another, to have a good life? instead of trapping in one relationship and becomes dull, fearing one would betray the other, and thus creates more jealousy, and so on and so forth. I was too possessive, and never once be good in maintaining communication. Finally I didn't like the way she always checking up on me, make sure I was not doing something stupid, and vice versa, I did that, too to her. It was just a pain in the butt for not trusting each other. I finally ended up liking another girl.... It was an awful mess, if you will.
I was also considering both of our paths are just way different, and it's just hard for me to keep hoping we could be together. So I came back home; we talked, and talked, and talked without ending. And finally we broke up through phone, because we both could not stand looking at each other. sigh...
I would say she would be better off without me, because I'm not fit with her, and so is she with me, in any way. We had dreamed ourselves being together, but I feel it's just impossible to be real. I guess right now we both made a good decision. I hope she has moved on, and be a greater person -which I'm pretty sure she will- for her community.”

He also said “ Nothing in this world would be so perfect”

I’m thinking right now...

You will never find true love until God show you who your true love is gonna be.

I’m not perfect

I broke someone else heart, hurt someone else feelings, threw away a lot of love memories.

I made mistake, i’m forgiven but still did the same thing all over again.

And if you think i’m a player, you totally got me wrong.

I just do things i wanna do and ignore everythings i don’t wanna do.

Life is all about choices. Same like my friend just did into their relationship story.

I just wanna be like this for a while.

Stay single or love someone that i loved.

Leave them when i feel nothing inside.

Or even feel hurt someday.

It’s not gonna change a thing.

We supposed to enjoy our time, it’s not gonna come back for the second time. If it does, it’s not gonna be same.

I love you and if you the one that God want me to stay with you forever, i do and i always do J